Get Sexcation Ready

We’ve all been part of relationships that have gotten a little…comfortable. The spark is still there, but the fun and novelty have lost their shine. Especially as that short-term relationship becomes a long-term one, it’s easy to get set in your ways. You’re simply going about the motions and doing the things you already know work.

While there are simple ways you can spice up your sex life, sometimes you just need a break from reality to really reconnect – physically – to your partner.

Enter the sexcation.

What is a Sexcation?

We all know about the wonders of vacation sex, but what about a vacation entirely devoted to it? Long weekends spent with your partner relaxing, having sex, and possibly getting zero sun whatsoever. Who could ask for more?

Sexcations are a way to remove all distractions from life – kids, work, around-the-house responsibilities – and really spend time getting a little wild together, removed from your usual stresses and surroundings.

Getting away from your everyday can help push you out of your comfort zone and open your mind to new and exciting ways to explore each other’s bodies.

Where To Start

First off, be smart. Sure, this is a vacation, but you aren’t going so that you can sit on a beach or see the sights – you’re going to see how many times you can orgasm and if you still have the core strength to maintain a handstand while your partner…well, does whatever they’re going to do.

We say all that to say: maybe don’t spring for the 4-star hotel in that huge city with all the museums, theater shows, and live music.

Think vacation rental, lakehouse, or cabin. Instead of a plane, find somewhere remote that’s within a few hours drive – preferably with spotty cell service – and create your little sex oasis there.

Once you’re booked, it’s all about the build up. Send your partner a few pictures of what you might wear during your sexcation in order to get them excited or maybe send them a picture of an empty suitcase and tell them you’ve packed all your outfits already.

Now, of course, dirty talk is great, but you also need to be practical. You’re trying to bring something new to your relationship, right? Well, instead of just talking about what you want to do to each other (which is also a wonderful idea), be sure to talk plainly about literally what you want to do. Especially in a long-term relationship, dialogue is likely to already be frank and open. Talk to each other about what you love about your sex life and what might be a little stale. Bring up fun and naughty things you’re interested in but always a little nervous to try. You might discover something new about each other and your relationship before you even leave for your trip!

This can also help you both connect emotionally. Sure, sex and relationships are fun, but they’re also incredibly meaningful. Maintaining a healthy dialogue and emotional connection can only help intensify your physical one.

Setting The Mood

Now that everything’s booked, it’s time to pack. First, you gotta think about the basics: candles, playlists, bluetooth speakers – all the stuff that’s really gonna help you set the mood.

Sure, a new environment is going to do half the work for you by getting you out of your usual mindset and into a new one, but taking the time to create a whole sexy ambiance for yourself and your partner can do wonders for getting in the mood. Think of what simply turning off the lights can do for your usual late night sessions – it’s that, but times ten.

Spicing It Up

Next, you gotta figure out just how you plan to spice it up. New lingerie? Good start. A few new positions that might help you find that perfect angle? Of course. How about a tingly balm to add fireworks to your makeout sessions? Or maybe a flavored lubricant or enhancement that can help take oral sex to the next level? Yes, yes, and hell yes.

Ok, so you’ve got your sexy outfits and your foreplay enhancements…but what about toys?

Most people think of sex toys as a purely solo affair, but that couldn’t be further from the truth. Plenty of sex toys can be used along with your partner and some are even designed specifically for sex!

For example, C-Vibe is the perfect toy to add to your intimate encounters. Its curved shape allows it to be inserted into the vagina while also nestling up against the clitoris. Its powerful motor will bring all the vibrating orgasmic pleasure…while your partner slips in right under the inserted toy. Yes, this toy can be used literally during sex.

Wearing C-Vibe while you’re getting it on gives both partners the added fun of vibration, but it will also make you feel tighter to your partner and your partner feel larger to you. It’s the best of all worlds and a game-changer when it comes to sex.

Next, something you might have heard of but may not have considered: cock rings. 

A cock ring is a silicone ring that – with the help of some lubricant – slides down to the base of the penis and helps it stay harder longer. That’s great, right? More time to grind. But there’s a whole other level to cock rings: vibration.

Yes, these rings can turn your partner into a human vibrator.

Rings like Double Feature have powerful vibrating motors that can rest up against the clitoris and provide that orgasmic bliss you’re craving. It will even encourage exploring new positions in order to find that perfect angle for ultimate stimulation.

(If we’ve piqued your interest, check out our step-by-step guide to cock rings, as well as some of our favorites!)

Let’s Get Booking!

Ready to go? There’s no better way to get back in tune with your partner physically than setting aside that time to truly connect. Sexcations are a fantastic way to escape life’s stresses and just purely focus on your partner and your intimate connection to each other.

So what are you waiting for? It’s time to book your ultimate weekend bliss!